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Anonymous asked: someone, please help me. I have liked this guy for 6 months. this guy is great. he is just, everything any girl would ever want. he's incredibly smart. he's perfect. and about three months ago, this stupid twin brothers came along and ruined everything. this guy i liked became influenced. and for whatever reason, they all hate me. they've even called me a slut. one of them pushed me. and i figured that they were about to egg my house. i don't know why. they hate me and i guess i hate me too.
1. you do not hate yourself. OK you are beautiful!
2. hes not perfect… if he was he wouldnt be doing this to you, try talking to him without his friends, guys are a lot different when you have them alone.
if he doesnt change the best thing for you is to move on, if they start assaulting ur house talk to ur parents yes they might be upset but not at you, the love you no matter what. trust me.
-K
livethehipster-way asked: 4) i dont think anyone but my family would miss me... and i know usay a lot more people would but.. most of my friends r backstabbing bitches and the rest dont care enough about me/ dont want to listen to it. i dont try anymore. another thing is that i hate feeling this way.. obviously or i wouldnt be writing this.. i just want this feeling to go away... i dont want to talk to my parents DEFINITELY about this but i dont know how to start a conversation like this with my friends. i need help :(
so here’s what i want you to do. every day, make a list of 10 things that make you smile, laugh, or just make you feel happy inside. it can be ANYTHING, just make the list. but dont stop at 10, if you find more, take note of those things too. dont avoid the doctor. if you dont feel well, go to the doctor. youre going to be alright. dont think about death or hurt. its not worth your time. only your family would miss you? NO. there are people who care about you. even if you have backstabbing bitch friends, im sure if you told them, they would care SO much about you. more than you could ever imagine. i care. trust me, you are not alone in this. i will always be here for you, so talk to me on this advice blog, or on my blog, c-ougar. if you dont have any friends right now who truly care about you 24/7, make a new friend. just 1 or maybe 2. get to know them so well that you could trust them with your life. trust me, they will understand you and your feelings. and you dont try? TRY. try harder than ever before, because that is whats going to help you feel better about life. if you want this feeling to go away, you HAVE to try. if you cant start this conversation with someone, talk to me or talk to your parents. i know you dont want to talk to your parents about this, but you need to. they are the people who care about you the most, and in the end, they are the ones who love you the most.
- C
livethehipster-way asked: 3) burning pain in my head and intensifying pain in my legs that i might be seriously inured and may not know it. And the worst part of it is... a few weeks ago i woke up, and i was just unhappy. not mad/sad/angry.. just unhappy.. i used to have so much energy and was so happy.. but im not anymore. my friends ask me if im ok and i tell them im tired thts it. but ... idk. and i dont cut because i cant take the pain but if i could believe me i would cut. :( and if i dyed . i dont think anyone but
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livethehipster-way asked: 2) after i got hit by the car i told the doctors i was fine after a week. I could barely walk. my legs hurt from being hit and they still do.. so does my head... i love sports and am back to riding.. i have a competition this sunday.. thats the reason i told the doctors i was fine. Today in math class i heard a story about a girl who tripped and got a minor concussion, 3 months later DEAD from bleeding in her brain. i'm scared that because i have headaches now that feel like burning pain in my
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- c
livethehipster-way asked: 1) in november i got hit by a car. i didnt break any bones. but i hit my head. the month before my horse flipped head first onto me. i didnt break any bones. but i fell straight on my head. the effcts of the concussion were only supposed to last a week or 2.. they lasted a lot longer. when i got hit by a car i was in the hospital for 2days. the doctors said i have permanent amnesia and will never remember some things and i had bleeding in my brain. not much.. but some... after i got hit bythecar
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Anonymous asked: 1. I have this friend who every time i tell her i like a guy, she'll say OHHH I HAVE TO GET TO KNOW HIM BETTER!!! and i would say i dont think you are the person that should be trying to get to know him better but she would always say something like "i have to be friends with him then/ ill get information off of him though/ ill work my magic ;)"and i know and so does every other girl knows that she only wants the guy to like her because she cant STAND a guy NOT liking her!! Its getting REALLY
oh i understand how you feel. i suggest that you have a talk with her about waiting for her perfect guy because she shouldnt try to impress guys that will one day be perfect for someone else
-c
first of all, lets talk about opening up again alright? i know its hard to open up after you have closed yourself off for so long. im sure you have some amazing friends who care about you right? and you also have your family to support you. i suggest you go to the bestest friend that you have, one that you can trust, and tell her/him about what youre going through. i promise you, a best friend will always be there for you and will always support you no matter what’s going on alright? you don’t have to worry about it or feel nervous, this person is your friend. because hun, after you let everything out, you will feel much better because you will have opened yourself up again. now then, i think youre trying to say that you can open up to this guy? well the guy that youre talking about sounds absolutely amazing and im really glad that you can maybe open up to him, if thats what you meant. and you’re trying to let someone go? but youre worried that its just your own convincing but that you actually still remember him? okay hun, i want you to ask yourself these questions once in awhile, it will help:
1. how am i feeling today?
2. how is he feeling today?
3. is he important to me? answer simply with yes or no (:
4. what does he mean to me? at first, itll be hard to answer this, but after some thought, im sure you will figure something out. is he a friend? a crush? just a guy i see around sometimes? etc.
5. is he interesting?
ask yourself these questions once in awhile and im sure you will be able to figure out if you actually did forget him or not. please, keep messaging me about this. even on my main blog. the url is c-ougar and i will try to help you as best i can alright? just remember, don’t be too hard on yourself because in situations like this, its the heart that decides everything and the mind has no say whatsoever.
- C (c-ougar)
